The true spirit of the Diwali season started for me with what we resentfully refer to as “the singing ladies.” At 5:30 am most mornings during the week of Diwali, we were awoken by live music. This music consisted of a low, eerie chanting of, “Ram, Ram, Hanuman, etc.” over a steady percussion of drums and bells. “Great,” I thought at first, “a Diwali Parade at 5:30. At least they will pass through and be gone soon.” To my surprise, they stuck around. “Oh, ok, so one song here, then they’ll move on and I can go back to sleep.” They stayed, settling in the park five yards from our open window. It was not until my post-shower floor squeegee that they had finished up and moved on to serenade another block of Lajpat Nagar.
The rest of Diwali was fun and festive and not annoying.
Diwali is truly a holiday of lights. It is the celebration of Ram returning, so the entire city is decorated with lights and lanterns to welcome his return. It felt like Christmastime, driving through the city at night in the cold wind, waterfalls of lights hanging down storefronts, crowds in the market place buying candles and ceramic lanterns and sweets.
Our family had two major celebrations of Diwali, the first being a large family party on Friday night and the second being a smaller in-house Puja and firework-fun on Saturday.
Friday evening, Alissa and I got on our sequined, bedazzled suits, and the family crowded into the car for the drive in heavy-traffic to a posh outskirt of Delhi. Once there, numerous uncles, aunts and cousins greeted us. We sat in lawn chairs in the large backyard decorated with small lanterns and were passed various snacks. Anna put it very well, whispering to me, “Oh no, I think we are going to have to eat a lot tonight.”
Later on, during dinner, many of the cousins and uncles played cards, which was basically three-card-draw poker and did indeed involve the betting of money. Boeing-the-pug ran around snorting, Aunties forced more and more food and drinks upon us and we enjoyed the cozy, boisterous warmth of the large family gathering. I felt very fancy in my outfit and also ridiculous as most people around our age were wearing jeans or casual, western clothing. The family did enjoy us looking very nice and Indian though, so I felt okay about it.
The next day, everyone stayed at home and relaxed. I will admit that I read Twilight for a large portion of the day.
In the evening was the Puja, the religious ceremony. A corner of the living room was designated as the Puja area (I had to remove my shoes to enter), and Aunty set-up various flower arrangements, candles, incense, boxes of sweets and prayer books. We gathered around as she went through the rituals, reciting prayers and lighting a tray of lanterns to be set-up on the porch. She gave us each a dot of red paint between the eyebrows and we fed sweets to one another.
Afterward, the entire family (upstairs-ers and various other visitors included) ventured out to the front porch to set-off boxes and boxes of fireworks, the most popular kind being ones that solely make a deafening bang. All over the city, late into the night, fireworks were going off and people were setting up small, oil lanterns on their porches and celebrating.
It was an energetic, family-oriented holiday that I enjoyed very much.